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Cultural Insensitivity


"Adio" to Dubrovnik
A tale of two refugees
Full Monty
Parlor Games
Share My Fire
Car - the relationship-saving device
Going Straight West
A year to expirience, a lifetime to understand
Meeting Vuk
Cultural insensitivity
Sex in Serbia
Buvljak experience
What's news in Yugoslavia? part II
What's news in Yugoslavia?
Trust issues: Yugoslav Banks
Hosting, Serbian style
Flat-hunting
Staying legally in Yugoslavia
Welcome to Belgrade
Border crossings
The Paper Chase: Single - entry visas
Recently, an American friend of mine arrived in Belgrade and I had the privilege of watching him make his first intercultural blunders when Serbs, eager to meet a new foreigner in town, asked him his impressions of Belgrade, Serbs and all the rest. Belgrade as a city was not worth a second glance, he admitted. Its night-life falls short of satisfactory and the cityscape lacks the kind of architectural charm he had grown accustomed to in other European capitals. The Serb suggested he then pack his bags and leave if he didn't like it.

Oooops!

Not much later, he broached the most sensitive of politically sensitive topics, Kosovo, over beer and billiards with a young man from Krajina, where Serb patriotism runs high. After stating his opinion that Kosovo is "occupied territory" similar to the West Bank in Gaza, the young Serb became visibly agitated and responded hotly, "You don't know anything about Serbian history." "Oh, I do know a few things about Serbian history," he said. "I've traveled in Kosovo, and I've spoken to Serbs and Albanians there, and I know that the population of Kosovo is 90% Albanian, and that the Serbian population is largely military personnel and clerics. And I know that what the Kosovo Albanians have been asking for is their own Yugoslavian state, to be just given the same status as Montenegro." "That would just be the start. They want their own country," the local replied angrily. "And what about your treatment of the Indians in your own country?" The potential hostilities were followed the following day by apologies, not to my friend, but to me.

Serbs are not ones to swallow their pride. I don't blame Serbs for being sensitive to the negative impressions foreigners might have about their country and I have a certain amount of respect for their national pride and their reluctance to kow-tow to the world's so-called superpower. As one YURO reader recently pointed out, Serbs don't want to be under the shadow of the U.S's mediocre leadership and culture. You'd be hard-pressed to find me beating my breast about American foreign policy, credit card culture, and our treatment of Native Americans as well as Serbs can on topics such as dissolution of Yugoslavia, patriarchy and the threat of Islam.

Westerners have always viewed Serbia and its inhabitants as woollier than the rest of Europe. The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire, written in 1776 by Edward Gibbon described the Serbia that existed in the middle-ages as a "Barbarian kingdom".

The poolplayer wanted to know what Americans thought about the war in Yugoslavia. The truth, my friend said, was that Americans simply don't care except when stories of atrocities and genocide appeared in the media. He argued that American foreign policy would be concerned about Kosovo and Macedonia because of the possible involvement of their allies Turkey and Greece, but otherwise these problems were not America's responsibility. Not exactly what you'd expect from the country that brought you the concept of globo-cops and New World Orders.

by Jennifer C. Brown    

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